One night my son screams that there is a monster in the closet. I said “There is no monster in the closet why are you afraid?” But actually my son wanted me to validate his emotional experience.
First way to communicate to across the gap of mindset is acknowledging that people who embraces conspiracy theory, supernatural, paranormal beliefs, they are doing so for emotional needs.
The first step is to acknowledging emotional reality for those people, then you will find a better way to communicate. Their believes fulfill their emotional needs.
– Eric Oliver
I might like to hack the biology behind your smile, and figure out the color of your eyes. Darling, nothing can beat my adequate sleeping time. If you mess with my schedule, I have to say goodbye.
That’s how selfish I could be.
Your heart is just a group of mindless muscle. I don’t want your heart. I want to occupy your brain. I want to own your every neuron. I want to be embedded in your cerebrum. Your hippocampus will hate me.
I want to distract you in the afternoon when you’re supposed to do something else. I want to make your eyes dilate. I want to raise your sugar level. I want to meddle with your schedule. I will mess with your dopamine pathway.
Dementia will never resolve me from your episodic memory. No course will ever rehab me.
That’s how selfish I could be.
I like your smile. it’s nice. I sound like a pretentious teenager who lacks a better vocabulary.
I like your smile. If I could hack the algorithm of your smile and replicate that. I will never need the real thing again. Now I am a mad scientist.
I like your smile. It’s precious. Have you ever thought about manufacturing your smile and monetizing it? do you want me to manage that? Now i’m a capitalist.
That’s how selfish I could be.
“Don’t get used to me so soon, I plan to surprise you long-term.”
Human beings are so rich in details when you get to know them. I want to make an instruction guidebook for every fellow I have. They all need to be handled differently with cautions.
the evidence of knowing someone so well is when you know what hurts them most, but they trust you to never hurt them.
