Author: clumsycat


Scrap Thoughts

Losers like to pose as the winner. Winners like to joke about being a loser. Pretty women think they are ugly. Best people have their largest pool of insecurity and so on. Watching people play mental game is my sport. What a fun thing to watch: human beings in action and interaction ❤️

Empathy of Understanding


One night my son screams that there is a monster in the closet.  I said “There is no monster in the closet why are you afraid?” But actually my son wanted me to validate his emotional experience. First way to communicate to across the gap of mindset is acknowledging that people who embraces conspiracy theory, supernatural, paranormal beliefs, they are doing so for emotional needs. The first step is to acknowledging emotional reality for those […]

How selfish I could be

Scrap Thoughts

I might like to hack the biology behind your smile, and figure out the color of your eyes.  Darling, nothing can beat my adequate sleeping time. If you mess with my schedule, I have to say goodbye. That’s how selfish I could be. Your heart is just a group of mindless muscle. I don’t want your heart. I want to occupy your brain.  I want to own your every neuron. I want to be embedded in […]

wikipedia of everyone I know.

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Human beings are so rich in details when you get to know them. I want to make an instruction guidebook for every fellow I have. They all need to be handled differently with cautions. the evidence of knowing someone so well is when you know what hurts them most, but they trust you to never hurt them.